To Be Successful…

“Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.”

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“”Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.” __ John Wooden

To be successful is the desire of almost every human being upon the face of the earth. Success denotes accomplishment, purpose, a rewarding journey in one’s career or personal life. Nonetheless, success often eludes people, or the wrong ‘type’ of success is acquired, one which does not resonate with our true calling. In a society that is constantly bombarding us with preordained, tailor made versions of success; it is easy to fall into the rat race trap. Each person is (or ought to be) an individual with particular abilities, likes and dislikes. It makes perfect sense not to want what everyone else considers “success” to be, but to strive to find YOUR passion. The calling or activity that brings you…

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ALIVE.

Going back to my writing. Rereading some of my blog posts, I want to share with you this one. ALIVE, because we all need reminders of how wonderful we truly are, and the precious gift of life. I hope you enjoy it dear ones.

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This morning I woke up with a mAgical sense of wonder. It felt as if I was just waking up on this earth for the very first time… As my eyes slowly opened the first thing I noticed it was the absence of that constant inner mental chatter. My brain, my mind were quiet, it was someone else doing the observing. I was not preoccupied with past or future, I was just happy to be alive NOW, to be able to breath, see, feel and be. What a strange and wesome feeling of just being.

I suddenly started to notice the room around me, the little details, the sound of the ventilator, the patterns in the curtain, the way the diary rested on the mantle piece accompanied by pens and letters. And suddenly I thought/felt this is material but is reality, it’s modable, changeable. In a moment I understood the…

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The Shadow Self

“Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” ― C.G. JungReflection-210x300

 

 

 

 

 

 

The moment you start looking inside yourself life begins to make perfect sense. We are not competing or fighting with other, our biggest battle is with ourselves. Once we learn to look at our own reflection and accept all the parts of ourselves a new relationship with ourselves begins. Your validation as a human being should never depend on outside forces. On the car you drive to make you feel better, on the clothes you were to improve your self-esteem, in the job you have to make you feel important. None of this is important, the most important validation comes from within. From knowing who you are, from making peace with the past and learning from your experiences, thus obtaining more wisdom, acceptance of self and peace within.

imagesWhen your learn to truly love yourself for who you are, a wonderful journey begins, a journey that lasts a whole life time – until your last breath on this earth. The minute you begin to detach from all the material things, as well as outside acceptance and status; that’s the moment you become free. Embrace your shadow self, allow it to teach you the parts of yourself that need improvement or acceptance. Learn to know yourself and to embrace your uniqueness and individuality. Only then , can you really have an honest life. Everything will have more meaning and beauty.

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You hold the key to open the gates of your own heart. You alone are the keeper of your soul. You have been blessed with divine liberty to choose your life, to become the creator of your own earth. There is a universe waiting to be explored within yourself, have the courage to walk through those gates and explore the city within. It is a magical journey and I wish you a happy life of this plane.

6 Months.

Six Months and Counting. What Tremendous Changes are Taking Place in My Life.

The last time I wrote a blog post was back in December 2014. Since then my life has taken unexpected shifts at so many levels. I have seen myself struggle, cry, persevere, grow and consistently work day in and day out to recuperate my entire life.

Since December 2014 I have been changing my life spiritually,  physically and mentally. My emotions have gone on a roller-coaster of discovery; sometimes reaching the depths of Hades, other times reaching the heights of the third heaven. Every day has been a learning curve, it has taken every bit of my being to remain sane and functional.  Nonetheless, quite sane and incredibly functional I am at the moment, and I know it is only the beginning. I have learn so much! volumes of knowledge and wisdom as the library of Alexandria.

Today I am 2569 years old with the body and organs of an 18 year old. Life continues and it is filled  with wonderful opportunities, all up for grabs. LibraryofAlexandria

Happy Christmas!!!

I wish each and everyone of my blog readers, a wonderful Christmas filled with joy, health, peace, prosperity, family and friends. This is the best time to reflect on this year that is almost ending, in all the achievements and experiences not to feel bad but to be grateful for all that has been and to decide to be an improved version of ourselves. This way we can embrace the new year that is coming, with open arms, a positive frame of mind, and a will to take consistent action in order to achieve our dreams and make our world, and the world a better place with our contribution. Merry Christmas Everyone!!!

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Resilience & Courage.

Most of us would like to have a smooth ride through life, to achieve all of our dreams and to have the perfect life. The problem is that life is not in any way lineal as most people would love to believe. Life is complex.

The most important lesson that should be taught at an early age is the power of resilience and courage,  without which it would be very difficult and painful to go through life. Every person is an entity, we have been given a body, mind and soul. Those three should be our most precious treasure. Everything  else that happens on the outside is circumstantial,  and circumstances change, and they change fast. One day you are happily married, the next your husband has left you, one day you have an amazing job, tomorrow you may be made redundant. Your great business could be lost along with your health and your love ones. So what guarantees do we have of anything? none really. Life is forever changing and we must learn to craft a character that will withstand the changes of life, the ups and downs.

A few nights ago I was asked: So how do you survive? what keeps you going? My answer was God, the power of faith, and always taking care of myself, knowing that no matter what happens in my life I have God and I have me. Every moment is a gift we must cherish and enjoy to the fullest, but at the same time me must learn to let go. Once the moment has passed is gone. Many of our sufferings as human beings are because we don’t live in the present moment, we are either too caught up in the past, reliving it again and again our minds; or we are dreaming of a future when we will be happy once we get this, that or the other. We should live every moment and every day as our only one, and make sure that we make it as happy as possible. Choose health, choose happiness, choose to anchor your security in yourself and in God or a power greater than you.

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ALIVE.

This morning I woke up with a mAgical sense of wonder. It felt as if I was just waking up on this earth for the very first time… As my eyes slowly opened the first thing I noticed it was the absence of that constant inner mental chatter. My brain, my mind were quiet, it was someone else doing the observing. I was not preoccupied with past or future, I was just happy to be alive NOW, to be able to breath, see, feel and be. What a strange and wesome feeling of just being.

I suddenly started to notice the room around me, the little details, the sound of the ventilator, the patterns in the curtain, the way the diary rested on the mantle piece accompanied by pens and letters. And suddenly I thought/felt this is material but is reality, it’s modable, changeable. In a moment I understood the meaning of life, that being ALIVE is the greatest gift! I started to look at my hands, to caress them and really notice the shape and size of my hands and to feel in my heart this immense sense of gratitude for ALL the amazing things I could do and create with my hands! I could touch and write, and work and help. I touched my harms in awe of the wonder of this incredible vehicle we have each been given called body. Through it, you can walk and travel, and feel people, and touch and create! And it hit me!

I REALISED, that I was a beautiful and a perfect creation, but that was not all. I also realised, that I was a creator. THE CREATOR and designer of my life and my own destiny – such a profound knowledge! How did I not understand this before? How and why I gave my power away to others? When I, and you! We are powerful beyond measure. There is nothing holding me back from creating the life of my own design, tailor suited only for me. The world is my canvas, I decide what to draw, where to draw it, who comes into my life and the type of life I want and desire. I can be and do anything! I am alive!

I feel amazing. A new start, a profound understanding that I can create the life I want with my thoughts, words and actions. It was my birthday yesterday Wednesday 12 of November, and today I feel born again, like a baby who just arrived on this earth and looks at it with a sense of wonder. I am powerful, I am mAgical. GOD has granted me another day of life and what a blessing and a present it is! Today don’t linger in the past or run away no an unreal future. Stay in the present. Live your life to the fullest. Appreciate you, appreciate life and all the beauty around, appreciate everything and everyone in your life. Be glad to be ALIVE and grasp that mAgical wand and go out there and create the life you want and deserve.